So many complications in a relationship..
every mind is different and so are the relations they carry.
First you try to find the perfect one...closest to your expectations..the one who scores highest on your checklist.You start falling for them. you get attached. Start caring about the simple things happening with them. You put their needs ahead of yours.
There goes the expectations. Since you already have given the person importance in your life you expect the same thing from them.
And there is the failure no :1 .Coz while you were trying to understand , they were convinced that their problems are so important that they don't even bother to consider yours. So the caring is not mutual.
Now you convince yourself that their problem is bigger and you should not be a stumbling stone in their path rather you choose to be their and be supportive. Here is the failure no 2.
You would never tell them how you feel so they would never understand whats going on your mind.
Still you keep thinking not to hurt them with your sarcasm or in a way telling the truth. You will suffer in silence. That is the failure no 3. You would keep thinking how much you are hurt ,you wont tell anyone and soon you will be the person who gets angry easily on anything. you loose all the patience you have and the person who caused you this doesn't have the slightest idea of your behavior , let you go so considering you are a sad person.
At this moment , you will be left alone and you would keep thinking that wish you could have let your feelings out before all this happened.
Advice..Never ever let the relation be one sided. Else one or the other will get hurt for sure.
every mind is different and so are the relations they carry.
First you try to find the perfect one...closest to your expectations..the one who scores highest on your checklist.You start falling for them. you get attached. Start caring about the simple things happening with them. You put their needs ahead of yours.
There goes the expectations. Since you already have given the person importance in your life you expect the same thing from them.
And there is the failure no :1 .Coz while you were trying to understand , they were convinced that their problems are so important that they don't even bother to consider yours. So the caring is not mutual.
Now you convince yourself that their problem is bigger and you should not be a stumbling stone in their path rather you choose to be their and be supportive. Here is the failure no 2.
You would never tell them how you feel so they would never understand whats going on your mind.
Still you keep thinking not to hurt them with your sarcasm or in a way telling the truth. You will suffer in silence. That is the failure no 3. You would keep thinking how much you are hurt ,you wont tell anyone and soon you will be the person who gets angry easily on anything. you loose all the patience you have and the person who caused you this doesn't have the slightest idea of your behavior , let you go so considering you are a sad person.
At this moment , you will be left alone and you would keep thinking that wish you could have let your feelings out before all this happened.
Advice..Never ever let the relation be one sided. Else one or the other will get hurt for sure.
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